As meta.SF regulars will recall [a user][1] recently posted a question here accusing [another user][2] of stalking him and maliciously downvoting. It appears that as the discussion of [the original question][3] played out on SF and as the comments and responses to the stalking accusation accumulated here (most of which said that there was no stalking or any other malicious behaviour), [the person in question][1] decided to withdraw their accusation. I would like to see that question restored here (and locked if necessary) because I think that sort of vigorous discussion is good to have and good to be recorded. How a person or - in this case - community deals with conflict is an excellent indicator of what the community is really like. I don't think that question should be deleted just because [trevor][1] didn't want it here anymore. OTOH, this question should be deleted once that question is restored... [1]: http://meta.serverfault.com/users/51341/trevor-burnham [2]: http://meta.serverfault.com/users/14428/hobodave [3]: http://serverfault.com/questions/241823/setting-a-time-limit-for-a-transaction-in-mysql-innodb