If you feel that your question is on the wrong SE site, you can flag and request that a moderator move it to another SE site. This is preferable to cross posting.
Having said that it would appear that your question is on the correct site. Adding a bounty (as you have) will hopefully garner more interest.
As to your deadlines, they're not ours. We don't have an SLA with you or anyone. Questions get answered as and when someone decides to spend their time helping out.
If you have a deadline then you should consider spedning some $(currency) on hiring someone to help you.