Oh mate, sorry to hear such bad news, that said if I can get through it I'm sure you can too.

I don't mind/care what you do, just feel slightly guilty that it's my answer that's causing so much admin for you is all.

Nobody contributes here for a job, we all do it to help others with our free time - read the help pages, observe the workings of the site, then you'll understand like tens of thousands before you have, ignoring this and just assuming you're right about what the site is for and what it's not is rude and disrespectful.